How important is grooming? Is God concerned about your dress and appearance? Can you be spiritually clean and at the same time be physically unclean?
Have you ever been revolted by the appearance or dress of another person?
You may have seen in a public place, such as a supermarket or a movie theater, an unshaven man dressed in ill fitting, dirty clothing, and wondered why he would allow himself to be seen like that?
Have you ever seen a woman with unusual makeup, a wild hairdo and garish clothing? You might have shrunk back, thinking she looked like a witch.
What about young men with straggly dirty hair, dressed in torn T-shirts and tattered jeans, perhaps barefoot? When you come across such a sight in a shopping mall or on the street, don’t you wonder what kind of parents such young men have?
Surely you have seen such people, and you probably couldn’t understand why someone would have such poor taste or such a lack of concern for others as to appear in public like that.
In recent years the fad has been “dressing down” instead of “dressing up.” Wearing old looking, mismatched, ragged clothing, even to special functions, has become perfectly acceptable.
Have you seen someone with long hair walking down the street and you could not be sure if it was a girl or boy? An abysmal lack of training in dress, grooming and hygiene, evidenced by the increasing number of “strange” looking people on display in public is apparent today. You can see such people at almost any time in almost any place.
But wait. You may see sights that are unpleasant or appear improper to you, but are you concerned about how you look? You may easily see many faults in the dress and appearance of others, especially when they are extreme. But how do you appear to other people? And more important, how do you appear before God? Is He concerned?
God most certainly does care about how you look. If you are a true Christian, you are one of the few lights in this dark world (Matt. 5:14). But what kind of a light are you?
God’s mind is expressed in the Bible, so let’s see some of the things God says in the Bible about grooming and dress.
When God placed Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, He commanded them to dress and keep the garden (Gen. 2:15). Here is a great principle. We should properly care for what God gives us. We should not let it grow up in weeds and thistles. It should be kept in good condition, neat and orderly.
This principle applies to our property and our homes, as well as to our persons. It includes how we dress, how we keep our hair, and how clean we are. God says our bodies are the temple of His Holy Spirit (I Corth. 3:17).
Can you imagine God’s holy Temple, as described in Ez. 40-48, in a dirty, filthy, unkempt condition? Of course not!
When Adam and Eve first decided to make clothing for themselves, they selected materials that could be easily put together. They took large fig leaves and sewed them together (Gen. 3:7).
Too many people are like that today. They make only a minimal effort to properly clothe themselves, and just “throw something together.” Or they may wear some cast-off, worn-out, poorly designed or shoddily constructed garment.
God does not do things this way. When He made clothing for Adam and Eve (Gen. 3:21), He made outer garments of leather or fur and clothed them. He did not make loincloth out of animal skins, as some people think, the Bible says God made coats for Adam and Eve. The outer garments God made for them were of the finest, most durable material.
When God established His law with ancient Israel, He gave the people certain physical laws that regulated their relationships with each other. Among these laws were regulations concerning cleanliness and sanitation.
If a person sinned or became ceremonially unclean, he or she had to go through a certain ritual which usually included bathing in water. These laws were intended to teach the people obedience. The washings picture the spiritual cleanness that would later be available through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ.
The laws relating to these carnal or physical washings are no longer a religious obligation today as the apostle Paul explained (Heb. 9:10). Yet the people who obeyed these physical laws of cleanliness were different from the gentiles around them. The gentiles did not have such laws that caused them to learn physical cleanliness. Since the Israelites frequently became ceremonially unclean, they had to bathe frequently. Imagine, if we had state laws that commanded people to bathe frequently!
The parents of those early Israelites surely taught their children to be clean too. Some of this teaching has been handed down from generation to generation to the present time. Today, the nations that are aware of and apply the principles of cleanliness reap numerous benefits.
God was particularly concerned about His priests. The priests were bound by even stricter regulations concerning cleanliness than were the lay people. The priests had to be physically clean when they ministered in the tabernacle or Temple. The whole subject of cleanness of person and dress for the priesthood was summed up in Isaiah 52:11: “Be ye clean, that bear the vessels of the Lord.”
When God came down to speak to the children of Israel at Mt. Sinai, He gave Moses specific instructions about how the people should appear before Him. They were commanded to wash their clothes (Ex. 19:10).
God did not permit His people to appear before Him physically dirty and wearing unkempt clothing, as many religious people today appear before their gods. We know God requires spiritual cleanliness today, but those who really are developing clean spiritual character should be practicing traits of physical cleanliness.
God is still particular about how His people appear before Him, for instance, at Sabbath services. But some people have not learned this yet. It is time to put away ignorance, disrespect and filthiness. God will not permit us to inherit His Kingdom if we have not been spiritually washed as a result of Christ’s great sacrifice, and unless we also learn how to appear before Him respectfully, humbly, with appropriate clothing and clean!
Ezekiel 16 describes how God provided for ancient Jerusalem which is a type of all Israel. In this passage Israel is likened to a woman with Christ as her husband. One of the first things Christ did when He found Israel was wash her and make her clean (v.9). Notice how lavish God was with His gifts of clothing and jewelry for His bride. He provided only the finest clothing and jewels.
God is no cheapskate or tightwad. He is not out of touch with reality. The best is none too good for God .He expects the best from His servants, and in turn will pour out blessings we are not able to contain (Mal. 3:10).
God will prosper the faithful servants who obey Him. It is God’s desire that we all might prosper and be in health (III John 2). God calls the weak and poor of the world (I Corth. 1:26-31, 2:5), but He does not expect us to stay that way. He expects us to prosper after we obey Him and change our ways, though this may take quite a time for some. This will make it possible to improve conditions that are not acceptable to Him.
Jesus showed that different occasions require different kinds of clothing. In His parable of the wedding supper (Matt. 22:1-14), there was an appropriate garment for the occasion and no other was acceptable. Regular street dress, work clothes or the like would not do.
How would you dress for a wedding? Would you women come in your old housedress and you men in old work clothes? Of course not! You would dress for the occasion.
And yet many people are less concern about how they appear before God on His Holy Sabbath than they are about how they appear at a wedding or funeral. We are more concerned about what people in the world think than we are about what God thinks.
White clothing is a symbol of righteousness (Rev. 19:8). Clothing that is really white is clean. The angels are described in many places in the Bible as appearing in bright, white garments. They are clothed in righteousness. For instance, Mary saw “two angels in white sitting, the one at the head, and the other at the feet, where the body of Jesus was lain” (John 20:12).
If we overcome and qualify for God’s Kingdom, we also will be clothed in white. This clothing will be fine linen, clean and white (Rev. 3:5 and 19:8) and without spot and wrinkle (Eph. 5:27), God will not give His own born sons ill-fitting, threadbare or filthy clothing. He does not want His begotten children to appear that way now.
But some of God’s begotten children are not concerned about proper dress and cleanliness.
People have appeared before God at His services in shameful ways. They have come to His annual Holy Days, Bible studies and church services in all manner of improper clothing.
We all ought to examine ourselves concerning our clothing before we appear before God in church services. We ought to wear the best clothing we have, and our clothes should be cleaned and pressed.
Men normally ought to be in suits, with jackets and tie, and the women in their dress. A few exceptions exist is some areas of the world, where custom or weather conditions dictate otherwise.
Some give the excuse that they are poor. It doesn’t cost money to wash your clothes and press them or to mend them. But it does take work! Of course, it does take money to have clothes dry-cleaned. After they have been cleaned and worn once, you may find it necessary to press them before they are worn again.
Some people who come to church really appear “run down” at the heels. Yet some of these same people have good incomes. Sometimes they earn more income than people who do present a good appearance. The concern a person shows and the effort he goes to are more important than how much money he makes.
Jesus Christ told us that we should seek His Kingdom first, that He would supply our physical necessities, including clothing. (Matt. 6:30).
How does God go about clothing us? He no longer makes fine leather or fur garments for us as He did for Adam and Eve. But if we seek God’s Kingdom first and are diligent He will make more readily available to us (by increased income, lower expenses, better breaks) the materials or money for proper garments.
God has made a wealth of fine materials available for clothing; cotton, linen, silk, wool, furs, synthetics. We can have inferior, poorly designed ill-fitting clothing that doesn’t take much work to construct. Or we can select better quality materials, design them well, and as a result have superior garments.
People are the products of the cultures in which they were reared. Many are too lazy or indifferent to improve themselves or their environment. But as God’s people we must change if we are to grow enough to enter God’s Kingdom. If we are used to shoddy goods, we must change. If we are used to filth and squalor, we must change.
God is giving us time to change and grow to be more like Jesus Christ. Christ wore quality, seamless clothing (John 19:23). He was neat and orderly in His personal habits. He is the Author of order and beauty, not confusion, chaos and filth.
If you can’t improve your conditions because of low income, take your problems directly to God in fervent, heart-rending prayer. Remind God of His promises, such as the promises in Matthew 6:30, and of your faithfulness in seeking His Kingdom first.
Here are some simple guidelines you should follow at all times, not just on the Sabbath: You should bathe daily. You should wear appropriate clothing for the occasion. Your hair should be clean and well groomed.
God commands that men should have short hair and women long hair (I Corth. 11:14-15), yet some men in the Church have longer hair than some women.
God’s way is to change, to work hard and improve in every way, physically and spiritually. Are you following this way? Are you improving in your grooming? Do you wear proper clothing for each occasion and keep yourself clean?
The next time you appear before Jesus Christ in His services, show your respect, admiration and love for Him by dressing and preparing properly for the occasion. Be clean and wear your best appropriate clothing, clean and pressed. Glorify God in your body! Wherever you are, let your light shine before men that they may glorify your Father which is in heaven. It is one aspect of your spiritual growth and development. Your appearance does count!