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A girl needs to understand what she is. What she has. What she will become. What she can do. Woman came on the scene right after Adam. There was no doubt at all that the man needed help, and lots of it.

There could be no future without woman. She provided a desperately needed sweet-sour, opposite-sameness for man. She was meant to complement him, stabilize him, stimulate him, produce the future, something he could never do by himself. She had the inherent ability to make their lives happy, peaceful, and content. To encourage, motivate, inspire. To give deep meaning to the word “love.” To make life completely successful.

Eve had the first opportunity. She and her husband could have conquered and ruled the world, given it happiness and peace everlasting. But she swallowed a lie; made a rash decision about what is right and wrong. Perhaps she didn’t recognize what tremendous influence she held over her husband, nor how far-reaching the consequences. She turned it all on, and the roof caved in.

Remember Delilah? She got together with Samson, the man who would make any modern surfer look sick. He was a real, lusty longhair. (He was to be a Nazarite from his mother’s womb, Judges 13:5.) He had roving eyes and he knew what he wanted. When the right woman came along, he was long gone. Brains, muscles, body, neat, tough and cool, but his whole life became loused up. He started himself down the chute, no doubt about that, but his woman, Delilah, was right in there using her femininity to help him all the way down and out. She turned on, and Samson really blew it.

Take Herodias and her daughter Salome for another example. Salome danced for the king so these two women could have what they wanted. Now when a dance stirs up a king so much that he offers half his kingdom and lops off a man’s head to show his appreciation, we can be sure he’d seen more than a ballroom dance. She had found a way to dress, a way to move her body, a way to use her eyes, a way to use her difference to change lives, obtain decisions, and get action. That’s power, live and real! It is part of femininity and womanhood, but only part. It’s a shame, but some women never find much more than just that part.

Eve, Delilah and Salome resorted to their natural womanly talents to assure decisions to their liking. Very probably these three used sex as their prime motivator. This does not mean to say that every woman is a sex trap. But all of them do have the potential to become one. Every woman ought to make certain that sex is not her only stock in trade. There is far more to a woman than just sex.

Femininity entails a different mental approach and appraisal of situations. A different response and reaction. It’s a soft strength and pretty power which impacts man, society, and destiny. There is no suggestion here that you abandon your feminine influence. Not for the world! Its proper use can be a tremendous force for good. If you use it rightly, happiness will come flooding into your life. You will find reason for being, attained purpose, fulfillment, the things which you really want deep down; the best life has to offer. But to be successful requires preparation and work.

Simply everybody (except for a few dropouts and knuckleheads) realizes that intelligence must be used and an education pursued. Even if it’s only a matter of money, food and clothes. Even those women who seek liberation realize they must be prepared (educated) if their movement is to succeed. Ability to do a job depends upon preparedness.

Whether or not you like it, you are responsible for you. Face up to it. A girl is known, and judged by what she does. Those who look for the right and true answers early are going to be better off. It is best to start building for the future as soon as possible.

The world needs reshaping. Everybody knows that. Most of the sincere hippies and Jesus people became what they were because they saw the crying need for improvement materialistically, mentally, and spiritually. But the very way, in which they lived, the product that their lives present screams that they did not find the way to get that reshaping done. Christ Himself says we can know it will be done. There is a way, even if we can’t put it all together today.

Reshaping the world is going to require women, real women! Not just girls women! And not just women but virtuous, industrious, thinking, educated, truth-oriented, giving, loving women. Women who have courage, intelligence, culture and leadership.

Perhaps it will come as a shock, but God wants women to be strong, smart, properly aggressive leaders. Their contribution toward a successful New World is sorely needed. A woman is expected to have a positive, commanding role in the instruction of her children. Her action is to be so vital and far-reaching that she will command the respect of her children. That is no small commission. Look at the success, or failure, of your own mother and realize just how much wisdom, strength, integrity, and love are required. There is a challenge of gigantic size.

A woman and her husband are to labor side by side in the rearing of their children. God is concerned for more than sons. He will have daughters too (II Cor. 6:18). A mother must insert powerful influence into the rearing of her children (Prov. 6:20).The mother of your husband-to-be should warn him about sex pots. You would expect her to, yes, you would want her to, tell him something like this:

“Listen to me, my son! I know what I am saying; listen! Watch yourself, lest you be indiscreet and betray some vital information. For the lips of a prostitute are as sweet as honey, and smooth flattery is her stock in trade. But afterwards only a bitter conscience is left to you, sharp as a double-edged sword. She leads you down to death and hell. For she does not know the path of life. She staggers down a crooked trail, and doesn’t even realize where it leads. Young men, listen to me, and never forget what I’m about to say: Run from her! Don’t go near her home, lest you fall to her temptation and lose your honor, and give the remainder of your life to the cruel and merciless; lest strangers obtain your wealth, and you become a slave of foreigners. And afterwards you groan in anguish and in shame, when syphilis consumes your body, and you say, ‘Oh, if only I had listened! If only I had not demanded my own way! Oh, why wouldn’t I take advice? Why was I so stupid? For now I must face public disgrace” (Prov. 5:1-14).

If your parents-in-law-to-be would so instruct your boyfriend, if he would believe them and avoid the obvious pitfalls, both of you would stand a much better chance of staying healthy. You wouldn’t need to be concerned that your own child, to be born in the distant future, might be blind or mentally deficient because of gonorrhea or syphilis.

And that is what you, too a girl today, but woman and mother tomorrow -- should eventually teach your own child! What and how you teach your child will depend upon what you know and the emphasis you place on the facts, the culture, and the religious way in which you use them.

Do you realize that today, right now you are creating the minds and character of yet unconceived children you will bear years from now? Your interest in learning today will be mirrored in your children. The better the job of educating yourself today, the better off will be your children. Your personal character and culture will unfold to the degree your education enlightens, refines and disciplines your appreciation of intellect, beauty and morality. The more cultured you are, the greater head-start your children will have. Your children are slated to become what you are! A girl who will have children must prepare for womanhood and motherhood. You must learn, grow, change, attain, because the future of your children, and society, depends on what you do from here on.

Look at life. Question it. Know! If you truly search for the answer, you will not be able to escape the conclusion that you must become educated. This doesn’t mean you need necessarily go to college, but you must know what you are about, how to live, and how to make a living. But the full expression of true womanhood demands more of you than mere book education. Your education should provide the foundation for proper culture. The best culture is arrived at when a woman expresses genuine, outgoing concern, true love for others. You should use your body, mind, and life to clearly fill the needs of your husband and children, your parents and society. To accomplish that naturally and conclusively demands morality, religious participation.

Knowing how to cook, sew and clean are mighty important parts of being a woman. You ought to be able to make wise and encompassing business decisions, too. Practical foresight into the everyday, routine problems of living is indispensable. You must be industrious, persevering, healthy, strong, and vigorous if you are going to make the most of your life, in or out of marriage.

A competent woman will be able to take charge of her own and her children’s problems, handle them deftly, thoroughly, give sure guidance out of her deep understanding of the fact of life, run her home and life with vision and certainty, love her husband and children in fairness and so satisfy the deep needs of all her family.

There is much to learn, seemingly more to do if life is going to become the highly satisfying experience which it is meant to be. But if you do well all those things mentioned above, it will only be for the reason that you have found some more wonderful reasons for doing them than just to satisfy your physical needs. There are fathomless rewards, as many women have found down through the ages, in such “mundane” accomplishments. But you can find even more delectable and luxurious sufficiency if you know and apply all these actions in relationship to the reason for your having been created feminine in the first place.

Do you want to be more wanted than the most precious and valuable jewels? Do you wish for respect, honor, esteem, adoration in their most gratifying fulfillment? Then get started right now! There is far more to womanly success than merely satisfying physical needs. A real woman’s mind will reach into the meaning of life itself and she will find God. She will come to understand what is truly transcendently important. Remember, Jesus told Martha that she was so wrapped up in her housework and dinner preparations that she was missing the reason for doing them in the first place (Luke 10:40-42).

A woman should strive for full womanhood because she has found the relevance of her femininity to God’s plan and purpose. She is meant to be a part of His Family.

Whatever woman you may admire and would emulate simply cannot be as thoroughly acceptable to God as the woman who practices His religion. The woman who reverences and worships God will accrue the virtue, capability, intelligence, grace, nobility, culture and strength of character to be completely acceptable to God in every relationship.

When rightly attuned to the overall purpose, any woman in private life can surpass the excellence attained by the most noted women of history. All you need to do is use the mysterious power and key which God provides. You need only to respect and reverence God, and then the Holy Spirit will empower you and make come true the impossible dream your womanhood harbors. You, too, can keep your date with a beautiful destiny. Use your womanhood to arrive.

 
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